Can I actually do it or am I just wasting my time?
This is heavy. This is a big one.
If you’re here, you’re probably asking yourself the same questions over and over: Am I just wasting my time? Am I kidding myself? Should I just accept my circumstances and go with the flow?
I get it. I’ve been there. And I want to tell you something important: You are absolutely worth it.
I refuse to believe that anyone is "stuck" or that their life is just a series of circumstances they have to accept. You are not defined by where you are right now. You are not locked into this version of yourself. You are capable of change, growth, and success—but only if you decide to believe it, too.
Changing Your Stars: Is It Actually Possible?
I believe, without a doubt, that everyone has the potential to “change their stars.” But let’s be honest; change isn’t easy. It takes work. It takes patience. And the hardest part? It takes fighting against the voice in your head telling you it’s not worth trying.
That mean voice will tell you:
❌ "You’re not smart enough."
❌ "You’re too old to start over."
❌ "You don’t have the right connections."
❌ "It’s too late for you."
None of that is true.
The difference between the people who succeed and the people who stay stuck isn’t intelligence, talent, or luck. It’s the ability to push through self-doubt and take action anyway.
How Do You Know If It’s Worth It?
If you’re wondering whether to keep going or to give up, ask yourself these questions:
Would I regret not trying?
Am I willing to put in the work even if success takes longer than I expect?
Do I feel a pull toward something bigger, even if I don’t have all the answers yet?
Does the idea of staying where I am forever make me feel trapped?
The answer to these is yes, absolutely: this is worth pursuing.
Here’s the Hard Truth:
No one else can do this for you. I can help guide you, but you have to put in the work.
You have to take the first step, even when it’s scary.
You have to keep going, even when progress feels slow. -This one is the hardest.
You have to believe that your goals are worth fighting for; because they are.
So, are you wasting your time? Only if you give up.
You are absolutely worth the effort. You are absolutely capable of making a difference in your own life. And if you’re willing to push past the fear, the frustration, and the doubts, you’ll look back one day and be so utterly and completely fulfilled and proud that you didn’t quit.